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There’s a funny saying (don’t ask where I heard it first) that goes something like this: “The world is divided into people who do things–and people who get the credit.”

It’s human nature to be desirous of recognition. It feels good, builds our self-esteem, establishes a sense of confidence in our efforts. Recognition is the kissing cousin of perception; and Perception, well…maybe it’s the kissing cousin of Reality. (I’ll leave that one alone). Back to my point, human beings desire recognition, fine. But…I would argue those who deserve it most, are often those who make the most effort to GIVE it.

It’s easy to shine the spotlight on ourselves, but it takes grace, humility and integrity to put personal effort into making someone else feel good about themselves. The next time you have chance to accept the applause, direct it to someone else. I think you’ll be surprised how quickly it comes back.

All my best,

Rick